Start by seasoning your trimmed sirloin with salt and pepper, and let it sit at room temperature for about 30 minutes. This rest ensures more evencooking and better flavor absorption.
While the steak rests, melt two tablespoons of the butter in your skillet over medium-low heat. Add the thinly sliced onion and cook for 25-30 minutes, stirring occasionally, until soft and golden brown.
Increase heat to medium-high, melt the remaining butter, and add the steak to the skillet. Cook approximately 4-5 minutes per side (or until your desired doneness). Spoon melted butter over the steak as it cooks.
Let the steak rest about 5 minutes, then slice across the grain as thinly as possible. Spray the baking dish, split your brioche rolls horizontally, and place the bottom halves into the dish. Pour about ¼ cup of melted cowboy butter over them. Add the steak slices, jalapeño slices, shredded cheddar, caramelized onions, then top with the roll tops. Brush another ¼ cup of cowboy butter over the tops.
Cover the dish with foil and bake at 350°F until cheese is hot and bubbly (about 15 minutes). Remove foil and bake an additional 3-5 minutes until the tops are golden brown. Remove the sliders, brush remaining cowboy butter over them, slice and serve.